130. You know, if it's that bad in bed, maybe you should discuss that a bit? There's nothing wrong with having a conversation about how to satisfy each other—especially when you're married. Statistics show, blah blah blah, cut to the chase, couples with good sex lives are happier and last longer. If NC17 fanfic is better than what you've got, I'm thinking the problem's not in the fanfic. Counseling. Discussion. Hell, sex toys. At least pretend to make an effort!
In a side note: It kind of annoys me that so many people are saying that if you don't have sex, he'll start cheating as though it's an inevitable fact of marriage. Don't get me wrong, it's pretty likely for both partners. Especially if you're avoiding sex for no better reason than you're "not in the mood". Guys are capable of being loving, faithful partners too people! :(
159. RHPS SECRET! YAY!
*ahem* I think that people who complain about "misaimed fandom" are completely missing the point. Fandom is for enjoying. It doesn't matter why you enjoy it—just that you do!
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In a side note: It kind of annoys me that so many people are saying that if you don't have sex, he'll start cheating as though it's an inevitable fact of marriage. Don't get me wrong, it's pretty likely for both partners. Especially if you're avoiding sex for no better reason than you're "not in the mood". Guys are capable of being loving, faithful partners too people! :(
159. RHPS SECRET! YAY!
*ahem* I think that people who complain about "misaimed fandom" are completely missing the point. Fandom is for enjoying. It doesn't matter why you enjoy it—just that you do!