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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-06-03 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #4532 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4532 ⌋

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I’m calling in the expert

[personal profile] feotakahari 2019-06-04 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
http://pervocracy.blogspot.com/2012/08/playing-light.html?m=1

“Kinky snobbery isn't just irrational, it's dangerous. When your guideline stops being "what will make me feel good?" and starts being "what will prove my sexuality is genuine?", you're liable to do things that don't make you feel good. You're also vulnerable to manipulation from people who try to convince you that if you were really kinky you'd XYZ with them, or people who say you're not having "real sex" because they want to rush you into intercourse. And there's the danger of skipping negotiation and safewords (or worse, not taking safewords seriously) because you don't think a certain type of light play is "real" enough to need them.”

Re: I’m calling in the expert

(Anonymous) 2019-06-04 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
That link gets thrown around a lot without regarding the second party in question.