[ SECRET POST #634 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #634 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

[aeoiae.livejournal.com]

YAY

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[aeoiae.livejournal.com]

122. Give him a chance. It is way too early to be worrying like that. He has not done anything remotely possessive or scary yet.

137. I agree. [http://a554.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/71/l_e069d168c29f380b8b6479f70a9b14c1.jpg]

Re: 122 and 137

[(Anonymous)]

What part of stalking deserves to be given a chance? It's not romantic, unwanted contact is unwanted contact.

Re: 122 and 137

[aeoiae.livejournal.com]

This is NOT stalking..
"A few days ago..." This is only one instance. He figured out her timetable so he could meet her, she has never voiced how this is unwanted so what does she expect? Some boys are not good at reading signs, and just because he tried to meet her by finding out her class to make it actually POSSIBLE in a huge college does not make him a stalker. He went through a lot of trouble because he was very interested in meeting her, but that is not stalker-ish, it just made it so it could actually happen.
Finding someone ONCE is not stalking. This does not sound like stalking to me, unless it has gone on far longer than she has said. From the information given, though, it sounds like it was a one-time thing, and she has made no effort and said, 'I am not interested,' so he hasn't let up. If she does say that, and he continues, and follows her, then I will agree, it is stalking and she has reason to be afraid.
For now though, it is sounding completely innocent and this guy was just trying to meet her. Sounds like an exaggeration to me.

Re: 122 and 137

[discokali.livejournal.com]

Screw being anon.

The OP says: It's not so romantic. I'm extremely terrified.
For that alone, the OP is under no obligation to give him a chance.

But I see from your profile you're here for the Lulz, so I doubt I will respond again, unless of course I really need to get my rage on.

Re: 122 and 137

[aeoiae.livejournal.com]

I am aware that she says she thinks it is not romantic and she is terrified.
I am saying it sounds like she is blowing things out of proportion and is being terrified for no reason.
She doesn't have to give him a chance if she doesn't want to, I was just saying I personally thought she should; however, being terrified seemed a little extreme for the circumstances, so since she says her reasons for not wanting to be pursued was her terror, she had no reason to not want to pursue him back.
She is not OBLIGATED to give him a chance, I was giving a suggestion, not ordering.

Oh, and: Lulz lulz lulz
Just kidding. But just because I want to get some lulz doesn't mean I can't be for srz. That is a baseless assumption.

Re: 122 and 137

[delfeus.livejournal.com]

They did say that they were reluctant to meet him. Forcing a meeting in a case like that is creepy, in my opinion. he should have just waited for them to be comfortable with the idea. It's probable that he just had good intentions, but I'd be creeped out, too.

Re: 122 and 137

[aeoiae.livejournal.com]

Okay, well she was reluctant to meet him. That is true, that is bad he pursued her, but look at his from his standpoint - what if he just thought she was a shy person and thought he was doing nothing wrong? That's something to consider.
Though, I do think it depends on how reluctant she was to meet him. If she flat-out told him she didn't want to without any discrepancy then he should have gotten the message. If she was like "well I don't know..." in a shy, sort of way, he could have thought he was actually helping her by making her more social.
There is so much we don't know, from the vagueness of her secret, though, his actions appear innocent unless there are some things she is not telling us.
OP where are youuu? :/

Re: 122 and 137

[delfeus.livejournal.com]

I actually thought of something now. Does the guy know that the OP loves Twilight and Edward/Bella? If he does, it's possible that he was trying to act a bit like that, thinking that it would be romantic and the OP would be happy, or something like that.

Well, better safe than sorry in any case.

122 OP

[(Anonymous)]

Ahahaha, you know, that's not entirely out of question. He has been searching abour data of me on the net, and if he figured out I read and liked Twilight, I can imagine him doing so :DD But he would have mentioned it so I guess it's not the point.

Re: 122 OP

[aeoiae.livejournal.com]

Oh lord... haha.
Well I hadn't have thought of that, though that is a possibility.

Though, judging from her other reply I actually think she has reason to be afraid. Time will tell I guess.

Though, better safe than sorry... yes.

122 OP

[(Anonymous)]

Ah, you're so sweet for analysing my silly situation!
I agree, one time suprise meeting is not stalking. A long time ago we talked about meeting, I said that I didn't want yet, than a lot of time passed without exchanging letters. Some weeks ago he asked how I am, I told him I'm okay, and next week he appeared waiting for me, saying that he wanted to answer in person.
I don't mind it that much, and he hasn't stalked me since yet. I'm just paranoid by nature. The main thing that creeps me out (I wasn't able to write that all in the secret) is that he searched for me in several community sites, checked out my friends, my school, my everything. He knows things about me he shouldn't because I didn't directly told him.
I feel bad because he is just really nice and curious but... I'm creeped out. I don't want to turn down him directly because he hasn't done anything really bad yet but I don't know how to get rid of this feeling.

Re: 122 OP

[aeoiae.livejournal.com]

Woahh.. that makes things completely different!
He found out all that stuff and checked your friends and school? Ugh. That is a bit creepy.. and it was a random appearance, not right after or anything. Yes, I think you actually do have reason to be afraid. If this does continue I would be very worried.
Sorry I misjudged, if I had known all that I would have had a different opinion. Your fears are well-supported.
Hope he leaves you alone... :/

Re: 122 OP

[princessgos.livejournal.com]

Trust your instincts and don't let anyone make you feel guilty for being creeped out. Too many woman have been hurt because they "didn't want to hurt his feelings", or "they didn't want to make a big deal about it" or "get him into trouble".

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