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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-07-20 01:14 pm

[ SECRET POST #4579 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4579 ⌋

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[Vincenzo's Plate youtube channel]


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[Terry Pratchett, Discworld]


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[David Tennant in Good Omens]


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[Black Mirror, "San Junipero"]


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[Crazyhead]


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[Love and Fortune]









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Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2019-07-20 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
The part that's problematic isn't him saying he has lunch with a coworker of the opposite sex; the part that's problematic is him telling his wife that he has lunch with a coworker of the opposite sex who's way hotter than her

It's really hard for me to think of a context where that's not screwed the eff up

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2019-07-21 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
da

Unless your social circle is incredibly limited it's normal to have friends who are better looking than your partner, and worse looking, and about the same. That's just life.

I don't know how you'd avoid it. Shun them? Make them wear paper bags on their heads lest you gaze upon their hotness directly and feel overcome with the urge to cheat?

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2019-07-21 03:51 am (UTC)(link)
Normal to HAVE friends who are good looking and perhaps better looking than your partner, sure. But that's not just what we're talking about here, and it's a bit weird you keep leaving the part out where he specifically brought up this person as an example to his less-hot wife when she's feeling self-conscious and unattractive, and oh yeah, he also has lunch with this hot co-worker once a week but can't be bothered to take his wife out even once in the last ten years.

That's not normal, it's pretty crappy.

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2019-07-21 03:55 am (UTC)(link)
Even if it's a fact, it's not necessarily one that's important to bring up in that specific context

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2019-07-21 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
Depends on how it's said?

"Mary at work is gorgeous but it's still you I want to be with" might sound like a romantic idea to some people.

You hear about wives telling their husbands that so and so's got dem six pack abs and chiseled jawline but it's their husband they want to be with, and that's seen as romantic like all the time.

We need more detail here, really

Re: Advice thread

(Anonymous) 2019-07-21 04:07 am (UTC)(link)
MTE.