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fandomsecrets2008-10-05 05:02 pm
[ SECRET POST #639 ]
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Most good slash, ime, is written by people who actually have some clue, rather than by ex-gospel singers who are just trying to rebel against mommy and daddy in any ~edgy~ way they can.
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But it's not just something ~edgy. Girls actually do that at parties sometimes. And that's why I can't hate it myself and kind of agree with OP. Its not offensive because it really just reminds me of what DOES happen at some parties when chicks start making out for male attention.
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(Anonymous) 2008-10-05 09:30 pm (UTC)(link)No one finds it offensive because they think she's taking the piss out of homosexuality. She's trivializing things though, she's treating f/f stuff as a game, she thinks it's perfectly valid to treat another girl a game because hey, it's only gay stuff, right? And better hope her boyfriend isn't pissed. By the way, *why* won't her boyfriend be pissed? Oh, right, because it's hot but meaningless, because women are purely sexualised. Doesn't matter that she kissed someone else, 'cause it's just a girl.
And finally, "It's not what good girls do." Thanks for that judgment Katy, but I'm actually delightful.
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I don't know what her complete view of writing/performing this song iiiis, but I just can't find something offensive if there are a lot wore things she could be doing. It's just a huge thing of stereotypes and what a few straight chicks at parties do/think (or at least from my experience with a lot fo the "party" girls I unfortunately know). I brush it off.
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(Anonymous) 2008-10-05 09:52 pm (UTC)(link)iffin' you say so
I'm sorry that you know, people go around making sexist and racist jokes out of jest. Because lol obviously we don't all do it every once in a while.
I forgot that some of us have a very high horse and therefor feel the need to tell everyone that "LOL UR DOIN IT WRONG" because they have a different opinion and don't find the same things offensive.
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(Anonymous) 2008-10-05 10:03 pm (UTC)(link)While it may help your conscience to think that, some of us really don't.
It isn't a high horse to think that racism, sexism and homophobia are always wrong (and by the way, "It's just a joke" has got to be the oldest defense in existence). Hell, if it *is* a high horse, I'm gonna keep riding it because I sure as hell wouldn't want to be down there with people who hold opinions like yours.
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I never said such things were okay, but songs like that sung by pop stars, and other such people are the least of anyone's worries. People burn and ban books because they're wrong to some group of people, while others are completely fine with it. There is no black and white to this sort of topic so it seems stupid to be completely against it or completely for it.
Jokes can be taken too far, but so can all the bull headed people who think that such subjects don't have fine lines to cross.
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(Anonymous) 2008-10-05 10:13 pm (UTC)(link)It is really, really black and white. Racism, sexism, homophobia, ablism - these things are not okay. They are never okay. As Jimmy Pineapple would say: Case. Fucking. Closed.
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To be honest, anon likes to get strung up and put words in my mouth. Because I don't respond as angrily to bad jokes, or silly little things like that, that must mean I am instantly racist and sexist.
If you say so, anon.
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(Anonymous) 2008-10-05 10:22 pm (UTC)(link)But, so you don't accuse me of putting words in your mouth, YOUR words:
I'm sorry that you know, people go around making sexist and racist jokes out of jest.
Sexist jokes. Racist jokes. Not jokes about gender or race, but jokes that are sexist or racist. There is a huge difference. That line you were talking about? It is crossed the second something becomes sexist or racist. Clearly though, you disagree. A little bit of racism is okay if it makes you giggle, right?
Btw, while you are not responding angrily, please do not fool yourself into thinking that your passive aggression is well hidden.
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And just so you know, I do understand I'm being passive aggressive. Never said I wasn't.
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I will say the song is catchy, though.
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Its not offensive because it really just reminds me of what DOES happen at some parties when chicks start making out for male attention.
No one ever said it didn't happen. But it is stupid, and singing a song about it is just as exploitative, the lyrics are still just as offensive, and people shouldn't be praising her for being so pro-gay, because the song isn't.
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I dunno. I'm not saying that people can't take offense or have to liek the song because that's dumb. I'm more interested in other people's opinions because I myself don't find it to be all that offensive.
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[Goes to youtube] A band called Temposhark covered I Kissed a Girl (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D17J4-EncIc), all lyrics the same, and if nothing else I recommend this to people because the song is annoyingly catchy so it's nice to be able to listen to it being sung by someone with a pleasant voice.
So there, just for comparison, I Kissed a Girl as sung from the perspective of a gay man. Make what you will of hypocrisy and such.
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Personally, I prefer this version of "I Kissed a Girl":
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