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⌈ Secret Post #641 ⌋

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So what would you categorize as masculine traits? And why are they masculine?

Aggression. Outgoing nature. Physical action. Anger. Lust. Domineering. Genius. Just to name a few. Why are they masculine? Because up until the past 100 years or so, these were traits/emotions that were idealised for males to have, but females were encouraged to be shy, demure, nurturing, and so on. This holds true across most cultures.

And what, pray, is wrong with the most positive of these traits? Can't a female character be smart, sexual, and outgoing? Fuck the past 100 years. I'm looking forward. These traits get things done, and they shouldn't be gender-specific.

And can't said female character combine, say, shyness with strength of character and bravery? Be both nuturing and outgoing? I want active females, not damsels-in-distress. It's a story. The worst sin a fictional character can commit is being dull, which is frequently correlated with being passive.

And people may have believed that these traits were masculine, but that doesn't mean they were right.

So you mean that these traits have traditionally been viewed as masculine in large parts of the world for a set amount of time? This is undoubtedly true. This does not, however, mean that we should go on doing it.

It also doesn't mean that they are innately masculine. If we'd just stop putting labels on traits, moving forward would be a lot easier.

Late to the party here. But, more or less, what the anon said. The critical thing to understand, though, is that there's nothing wrong with the traditionally masculine traits anon mentioned. They are generally positive traits regardless of which gender they are found in.

BUT! What bothers me (and what I think 161 was getting at) is when these traits are placed on a pedestal and used to devalue or ridicule traditionally feminine traits, such as emotional depth, compassion, empathy, etc. These "feminine" traits can be just as strong and empowering as being aggressive and physically dominant, and they certainly don't necessitate being helpless or insipid either. Being compassionate, caring, standing up for a cause, and real problem-solving (i.e., not physical violence) takes a huge amount of courage. It seems that, a lot of times, female characters who exhibit this kind of strength are just written off as weak and worthless and I completely don't agree with that.

What bothers me is the categorizing of them as "male". It implies that women who have them are unusual in some way, not "ordinary" women. Using the "male" and "female" labels for certain traits gives them false associations, and prevents both deeper understanding and progress of us humans.

Loving female characters who like to fight, are brash, have "romantic" goals (not romance; I mean wanting to sail around the world, becoming the best swordsman, solving the mystery of something, and the like), and are uninterested in family life should not make people think that one hates being a woman. These characters are women! They're just as womanly as the timid housewife who lives for her children and husband! There is no special way a woman "ought" to be, no "natural" way of thinking that's innately female.

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