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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-09-03 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #4624 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4624 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2019-09-04 03:58 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT - I'm 32. They look like adults to me, and I can see why OP finds them attractive.

Anyway, the negative response the original anon is getting is not because anon thinks these guys look young. If anon had simply said, "These guys all look too young for my taste," that would've been fine. Instead they chose to make a comment that implies there's something inferior or invalid about OP being attracted to these guys.

OP's secret literally expresses a sense of empowered self-discovery - that they're attracted to a different type of man than they've been made to feel they should be attracted to. Anon's reply? Those aren't men.

It's a pretty rude and invalidating response to the secret.

(Anonymous) 2019-09-04 10:08 pm (UTC)(link)
This. At 36, they look like adults to me. Now, as a fan of the band, I don't find Kookie attractive because he ACTS young to me, but I'd totally hit Jin and Namjoon any day.