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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-09-14 04:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #4635 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4635 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2019-09-15 06:11 am (UTC)(link)
What about the power imbalance or the older person taking advantage of the younger person due to inexperience?

Sure, those things can be issues. But they can also be issues with any relationship.

Those things do not remove the inherent creepiness.

To you, there's an inherent creepiness. But that's not universal. Personally I find relationships with extreme age gaps questionable, but not necessarily creep, as long as the individuals involved are of legal age and what I witness of the relationship does not strike me as abusive or unhealthy. Often, yes, I find them creepy, but not always.

They have the right to express their criticisms.

People have the right to express their criticism. I have the right to roll my eyes and criticize them right back, when their criticism is presumptive, off base, and disconnected from reality.

(Anonymous) 2019-09-15 06:46 am (UTC)(link)
Agree to disagree on some parts, but would you roll your eyes at someone who had traumatic experiences, in which certain tropes may be triggering?

(Anonymous) 2019-09-15 07:04 am (UTC)(link)
If I had failed to tag my stuff appropriately, I'd sincerely apologize. But if they were just criticizing me for my ship, or coming into my space to criticize my ship, then yeah, I'd roll my eyes. And they'd be lucky if they didn't get an "oh piss off" from me while I was at it.