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fandomsecrets2019-10-12 03:36 pm
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⌈ Secret Post #4663 ⌋
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Re: Not-OP
There definitely aren't no female antiheroes - personally I love the hell out of Jessica Jones, even though it's really hard to watch at times. OTOH I think anything based on IRL murderers reasonably described as "psychopathic" is a lot more "villain protagonist" than antihero. With an antihero, I don't just want to be sympathetic to them, I want to see them trying to do good even while being super tarnished. Still, I think it's telling that I can come up with entire genres based around male antiheroes, and we're discussing only individual examples for female ones. Just because some of them exist doesn't mean there isn't still a hunger for more of that kind of story, and the unexplored possibilities for it.
As for "women tend to be more judgmental," I think this is a place where we really need to watch out for turning anecdata into data. Are there lots of women who internalize and enforce patriarchal standards? YES ABSOLUTELY. Are women as a class more critical of other women that men, or do we just notice it more when some of them do it? I don't think that's a settled question. And even if it were true, is this because women are inherently critical, or because having your personhood constantly judged by certain standards will necessarily make you hyper-aware of those standards? And the more someone sacrifices to succeed within those standards the more sunk cost fallacy is going to make them invested in upholding those structures.
TLDR: profit motive shapes popular media in a sexist culture, and women aren't immune to perpetuating that culture. But popular media also goes on to reinforce/recreate/exaggerate that culture and push that culture on male and female viewers alike. And the existence of some women really caught in that mental trap doesn't invalidate a lot of us being really, really tired of some of what it creates.