case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-10-28 05:14 pm

[ SECRET POST #4679 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4679 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.



__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.



__________________________________________________



07.












Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 31 secrets from Secret Submission Post #670.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2019-10-29 03:29 am (UTC)(link)
I mean this in the kindest way, anon, but... your normal meter is broken. You say your parents have never DONE anything to you, but that's simply not true. They raised an incredibly anxious person who feels LUCKY that their parents are doing the bare minimum of care, i.e. paying for the treatment that you badly need to survive. They've made you so anxious and frightened of being sick and allowing yourself perfectly normal, reasonable human frailties that you're on the track to ruining your health so you won't disappoint them. They place a value on you that directly relates to your employment, as if you don't deserve to be loved and treated with respect regardless of whether or not you have a job. Their love is conditional, it comes with generous amounts of emotional abuse

THAT'S why your fear of them knows no bounds. You know that it doesn't take much for them to turn from barely loving, not-quite-adequate parents who support you into angry parents who might snatch away what little they've begrudgingly given you.

I'm very sorry. I hope things get better for you.