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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-11-03 02:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #4685 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4685 ⌋

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Re: Advice needed.

(Anonymous) 2019-11-04 04:27 am (UTC)(link)
I completely get the drive to do this, but please try not to. It's very tempting to examine every little detail so you can gain some understanding or closure but honestly, this is not the way to do it. The last thing you need to do is obsess over something that cannot alter the outcome of this friendship and while you do this, you won't be able to move on. Any insight you can gain from this friendship ending will happen - IF it happens at all - much, much later, AFTER you've moved on. You're too close to it now for scrutiny to do any good.

Don't pick at the wound, let it heal.