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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-11-06 06:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #4688 ]


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(Anonymous) 2019-11-07 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
That said, a lot of what we talk about when we talk about "being turned on" isn't necessarily physical arousal. A lot of it is mental sexual interest? Which is something I can see being kind of difficult to pinpoint, depending on how strong your libido is. For me, mental sexual interest is just...sexual stuff I like thinking about and feel drawn to think about and get mental/emotional pleasure from thinking about.

DA. Yeah, I'd say this is pretty common. Like, it's satisfactory for the characters to wind up together, like watching a romcom ending where you feel the couple should end up together and they do feels satisfactory, but not really erotic.

Fic that's erotic and creates a physical reaction is different (and it's a small subset of REALLY good smutfic.)

(Anonymous) 2019-11-07 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
In my case, even a lot of things that have me going, "Holy shit, I feel like I could breathe steam, that is so fucking erotic" STILL don't get me physically turned on. Which I think is probably where the whole "low libido" bit comes into play? But maybe even that is more common than I'm aware of, I honestly don't know.

it's a small subset of REALLY good smutfic.

Hell yeah, it is. And praise it for existing.