[ SECRET POST #4709 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4709 ⌋

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Comments

Re: non-fandom secrets

[(Anonymous)]

I guess it depends on how you frame it? For example, for some of yours, you could say "I regret slacking off/being lazy in school" or "I regret giving up my gym regimen" or "I regret that I stayed home all that time instead of going out and meeting new friends" or whatever.

You could frame it this way, but I think fundamentally you'd still be regretting a lack of action. It's like saying, "I regret that thing I did where I didn't do the thing."

Interestingly, I have very few regrets over things I've done. Like...small stuff, sure. Saying something stupid and embarrassing that one time or that other time, or wasting a hundred dollars on something dumb. But that's about it. Guess we're opposites lol. :)

Re: non-fandom secrets

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

You could frame it this way, but I think fundamentally you'd still be regretting a lack of action. It's like saying, "I regret that thing I did where I didn't do the thing."

But you could also say you regretted doing the thing you did instead of doing the thing you should have done! :P

Any things I didn't do are so minor that I honestly can't think of them right now, it's the things I did do that I regret. My #1 regret is going out with my ex because I was too ashamed of my sexuality and felt the need to be "normal". But I guess you could also frame that as saying I regret not breaking up with him (and instead waiting for him to break up with me, because he was unable to convert me to his church of all things, apparently not catching onto the fact that I didn't like men). Everything else is things I did because of peer pressure/seeking approval/trying to fit in, but again you could frame that as I regret not being confident in who I was and standing up for myself. It just depends on how you want to look at it, I guess (and again, I don't know if that even makes sense).

But yeah, it sounds like we're opposites lol. It's interesting how different people can interpret/experience things so differently.