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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-12-07 03:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #4719 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4719 ⌋

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Re: TW: transphobia

(Anonymous) 2019-12-08 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
I'm gay. Same-sex attracted, not... same gender identity attracted? I'm sure some people are interchangeably attracted to women and trans women. I don't want to police how other people identify their own sexualities, and I certainly don't have a problem with people using the word gay for that as long as they also respect that I use that word too, and I mean it the way I've always meant it.

I won't misgender people who wish to use female pronouns, but trans women are trans women. Women are women. Men are men. Trans men are trans men. I am in no way saying that people are not attracted to any combination of the above, I am in no way saying that it is wrong. Sexuality isn't a choice, and people should not be expected to "get over" not being attracted to any type of person. That's some wack religious pray the gay away camp philosophy.

It's not just the penis thing. If you think less sexually about the things you like about someone, how they smell, the way they laugh. Hormones have more subtle influences on bodies. Both the hormones you have from birth and any you take after. I'm not attracted to trans men or trans women, regardless of what's going on downstairs.

Lol. Thanks for your promise and your false statistic. Feel so safe now from the actual death and rape threats I've been sent for turning people down politely and never mentioning it's because they're trans. Bless you for protecting me from threats of actual violence with empty words.

It's not made up. I forgot the dead rats. Charming.
https://globalnews.ca/news/5824446/vancouver-rape-relief-womens-shelter-graffiti/
They've also had government funding cut unless they change their policies.

I'm not being slow cooked unless I have been from birth? Lmao. I come from a rad fem family. I've worked in non profits for women's health and safety since I finished high school.

I'd like for there to be more sanity and less bullshit on both sides, but I know my rad fem from my lib fem ideology and I'm not here because of fear mongering.