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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-01-30 05:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #4773 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4773 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-31 03:56 am (UTC)(link)
I honestly look way better now at age 30 than I did in my teens or early 20s, tbh. I wasn't overweight but had a lot of baby fat in my face, and was generally awkward and pimply. Just kind of a potato. I'm not saying I'm hot now, but I think I look way better now that the baby fat has melted away and my face cleared up. Plus, I'm definitely more confident in my body.

Point is, don't go to the internet because you're desperate for validation - that's a bad remedy for bad self-esteem issues. But if you feel cute, rock it! Take those selfies! It's so hard to feel good about how you look, no matter where you're at in life, so when you got those good feelings you damn well own 'em.

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(Anonymous) 2020-01-31 05:13 am (UTC)(link)
Good for both of you! I get what you mean about losing baby fat and growing into your features. I feel like that happened in my early-to-mid twenties.

Unfortunately, I think the decline has started for me. I'm a pale white woman with small features, so unfortunately, I'm not someone who can carry fine lines and the effects of gravity all that well. But hey, I take care of my skin. Hopefully I can age gracefully. :)

Also, agreed about going to the internet for validation. I definitely understand, and sometimes feel, the temptation - but man, you'll never get enough.