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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-02-21 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #4795 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4795 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


Spoilers and CWs ahead!



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02. [SPOILERS for The Good Place]



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03. [SPOILERS for Sanditon]



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04. [SPOILERS for Guilded Age]



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05. [SPOILERS for Star Trek: Picard]



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06. [WARNING for discussion of rape]

[Graceling]


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07. [WARNING for discussion of substance abuse]



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08. [WARNING for discussion of sexual assault]



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09. [WARNING for discussion of abuse/assault]



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10. [WARNING for discussion of incest/underage/etc. Not the main topic but figured it might start discussion]
























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(Anonymous) 2020-02-22 06:32 am (UTC)(link)
I'm 42 and my fiancee is 26. She was 17 when we first met. Didn't date for a few years, until A) I was no longer married and B) she no longer worked under me.

(Anonymous) 2020-02-22 06:49 am (UTC)(link)
The other two stories above are about devoted couples and you thought you'd add a 'chucked my wife for a younger piece of ass' one in huh? Ugh.

(Anonymous) 2020-02-22 07:14 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT - Not saying I don't heave an "of fucking course he did" sigh when guys do this shit (leave wives somewhere close to their age for much younger women). But the bottom line is, people have the right to get divorced, people have the right to move on, and people have the right pursue consensual relationships with much younger partners. None of those things are inherently wrong, even when they come in a three-pack.

(And for the record, no, I'm not just assuming anon is a guy. Anon might be a lady. I just don't have the same violent-eyeroll reaction to ladies leaving their wives for much younger women because it's not a fucking epidemic the way it is for middle-aged men.)

(Anonymous) 2020-02-22 07:19 am (UTC)(link)
Also, the fact that AYRT's fiance knew him(?) for "a few years" before they dated, and the fact that AYRT had the good sense, ethics, and self-control not to get with her while she was his(?) work subordinate is a good sign. I'm not voting them couple-of-the-year or anything, I'm just saying.

(Anonymous) 2020-02-22 09:23 am (UTC)(link)
I agree... AYRT seems to be making a very general statement considering the info we have on the story they're replying to.