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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-03-07 03:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #4810 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4810 ⌋

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Re: Conflicting feelings

(Anonymous) 2020-03-08 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
I can see how it still feels like a slight even if you didn't really want to go.

Except for the one who eloped, I've been invited to all my cousin's weddings so far, despite not being very close to them. What sticks in my craw is that I have never once been sent an invitation or even been included on a wedding-related email. Instead my name is included on the invitation sent to my parents, even though I have lived in a different city 6 hours away from them for 15 years. I realize nice invitations are expensive, and I realize it's really my parents who are being invited as the aunt and uncle and my brother and I are like some +1s tacked on with them, but it still feels disrespectful and I can't help but think that if I were married with a kid they would see me as an adult with my own household who should get her own invitation if I'm being invited at all. For the record, I'm the oldest of all of my cousins.