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fandomsecrets2020-03-21 03:55 pm
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(Anonymous) 2020-03-22 12:31 am (UTC)(link)Sorry for the misunderstanding, what I ment was I also won't say anything just like you *wink wink*.
Let's put it this way, I absolutely don't want the entire ace community to split into multiple factions, we are stronger together especially with all the rampant aphobia that gets flung about.
But there is a certain group that has sex, their own flag and a name that sets them apart from us. And yet they are still included in our number :')
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(Anonymous) 2020-03-22 12:38 am (UTC)(link)I'd never want anyone to feel unwelcome, but it it really does feel like we've started to get pushed out of our own movement lmaooo
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(Anonymous) 2020-03-22 02:38 am (UTC)(link)Yeah. I don't know how to say it without sounding mean or like I'm gatekeeping or whatever, but I feel like things would be much easier if the definition was just "doesn't like/want to have sex" or something along those lines, and that was it. I really don't see why people who love sex feel the need to identify as asexual or be part of the community, anyway. I don't purposely want to exclude people, but I can't help but feel a bit resentful...like we can't even have one thing (label/community/group/place/however you want to describe it) without them? I don't know.
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(Anonymous) 2020-03-22 02:23 am (UTC)(link)But there is a certain group that has sex, their own flag and a name that sets them apart from us. And yet they are still included in our number :')
Sorry if I'm being dense, but what group are you talking about? Demisexuals?
And yeah, I know it's not good to split the community into multiple factions, but at the same time I feel like...what's even the point if it includes people who like/want sex? I feel like that's mean and it's not good to exclude people, but...IDK how to explain it, it's just kind of frustrating.