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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-04-04 02:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #4838 ]


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[personal profile] philstar22 2020-04-05 03:14 am (UTC)(link)
Men in underwear can be very sexy. Men in bras not so much. I like "crossdressing" when it is stuff that actually looks good on men/looks like it could have been designed for a man's body. A man in tight and lacy underwear and heels for example. But when you add in a bra, suddenly it becomes a joke or a humiliation thing and not particularly sexy anymore to me.

(Anonymous) 2020-04-05 04:32 pm (UTC)(link)
So flat-chested women who wear bras are humiliating themselves? The more you know...
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[personal profile] philstar22 2020-04-05 04:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Not what I said at all. When men wear bras, generally they aren't wearing them because they are designed for them. They are wearing them specifically for crossdressing purposes and are often specifically looking for humiliation as a kink. I personally don't find that sexy and personally don't think men look good in bras. Usually flat-chested women wear bras that actually fit them.

You really had to stretch to read that much into what I wrote.

(Anonymous) 2020-04-05 11:06 pm (UTC)(link)
I agree. Men being GNC or whatever is great and fine and I'm super into it a lot of the time except for when they're forced into it and it's not framed as a bad thing? Like, okay if a dude has a humiliation kink and it's consensual that's fine. But people getting a kick out of forcing someone into an uncomfortable situation without that reflecting badly on them and NOPE I'm out.

And really this extends to all things with me. It doesn't have to be crossdressing or whatever but whenever a character is forced into something for laughs and their discomfort is supposed to be the joke just *getting bullied flashbacks*. My discomfort comes from the fact something skeevy is happening and it's supposed to be a fun spectacle.

It's not fun or funny to me.

If Cloud wants to wear a dress or any male character, more power to them but the point should be that they wanted to. It was their choice. I actually like a lot of characters that crossdress (both men and women) but the ones I like are doing it because they want to and no one is laughing at them.