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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-04-09 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #4843 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4843 ⌋

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[Schitt's Creek]


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[Frozen 2]


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[Evangelion: RE-TAKE, Halo 5]


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[Teen Wolf]


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(Anonymous) 2020-04-10 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
I agree with AYRT, but not that anyone can have friends, a good job, a spouse, kids, etc. I mean, yes, obviously, they all take effort; there’s no magic shortcuts, but people can put lots of effort toward any or all of those goals and still not achieve them, or in some cases, have to put all their effort into basic survival and never get to the point where they’re able to prioritize other things.

Which sucks, but still doesn’t justify OP’s deciding her friend is a “friend” because how dare she be unhappy when she has things OP wants.

—wanted kids and a spouse and more than a couple of friends, but it’s not the fault of people who have them that I don’t.

(Anonymous) 2020-04-10 09:08 am (UTC)(link)
You'd be surprised at how many people I've met who don't seem to realize that friendships take effort... and then they can't understand why they don't have any.