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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-04-09 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #4843 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4843 ⌋

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[Schitt's Creek]


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[Frozen 2]


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[Evangelion: RE-TAKE, Halo 5]


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[Teen Wolf]


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(Anonymous) 2020-04-11 09:59 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

Yeah you just sound like OP here. No, I haven't been unfairly jealous of people who are able to have better lives than mine. It's really not that hard not to be an asshole. Being bitter about someone else's achievements is literal the stupidest things ever. The only thing you can change/affect in your life is your own deeds and actions. Not even surprisingly this very mindset (matched with a number of traumas in between) has lead me into severe depression, to which I've isolated myself and cut off all/any friends/acquaintances, fun stuff for sure... What I am happy about is that people are able to live their lives, even if it happens to be around me, be it those I cut off, abandoned, or otherwise. Like I am a very shitty person, but I'm not about to get bitter or jealous because someone else lives a fine life while I'm here wondering if I'll need to sell myself in a club in order to get the rent and move on in life...
Nobody can fault another person's happiness or success without being a complete asshole. You can want what they have, yearn for it, but blaming them for it is a purely shitty things to do.

I will not have compassion for people who push their insecurities and anger as if it's someone else's fault. It is your own, and yours alone. Be happy for people who managed to make their lives well, even if yours seem only to end in failure. It is not their fault, and in no way should they be blamed. Grow up.

SA! *NOT THE AYRT,* but the anon that they responded to...

(Anonymous) 2020-04-11 10:07 am (UTC)(link)
Just for clarification.