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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-05-09 04:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #4873 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4873 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2020-05-10 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT - Interesting. That is not remotely what I want from a/b/o. It's way, way wolfier than most a/b/o I've seen (though I have seen this kind of a/b/o as well, just less of it). I just want humans, some of whom go into heat and half self-lubing asses, and some of whom have giant dicks with knots on them that feel really, really good to the ones that are in heat.

The wolf-pack aspect is so not my scene. To me it just feels like an additional layer of social role essentialism. Like, an omega who is capable of rejecting suitors is cool, but I much prefer when they don't have to, because nobody is treating them like a prize to be won in the first place.

Not a big fan of helplessness either though. I prefer when both characters are able to control themselves, if only barely.
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2020-05-10 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
Heee!
I am so very glad that fandom provides (as a rule) for all our different tastes.

I like the idea of omegas being rare and therefore yes, prizes, but nobody owns one or anything. Hormones and instinct might make you fight, but if you ultimately don't click, then it's 'fuck no' and find someone else (or a great, big dildo). And yes - all those hormones making everything feel *really really good*.

(Anonymous) 2020-05-10 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
I love wolf-y stuff! I like to think of it as the alpha is a leader and they're an alpha because they're the leader not a leader because they're an alpha. And the social dynamic is more due to pack structure than biology. This allows for a bit of fluidity! Most animals aren't born being with an innate "alpha" or "omega" or "beta" or anything but it depends on what other animals they're with, their life stage, and other factors. It's a social, hierarchical distinction, one that can change and that isn't really "oppressive" but simply the "structure" of their pack/society. Not anything to do with whether or not one's hormones make all the alphas go crazy because that omega doesn't have a mate yet or whatever else.

I guess you could say that I like seeing the alpha/beta/omega stuff as more "personality types" than biological classes that are innate and unchangeable.

(Anonymous) 2020-05-10 01:52 am (UTC)(link)
I like seeing the alpha/beta/omega stuff as more "personality types" than biological classes

Yeah, I can understand this. Personally, I just don't like it much either way. I prefer when there are no personality types that are particularly associated with the a/b/o types, AND no innate gender behaviors.

I like my a/o roles confined to how things go in the bedroom. Outside the bedroom, who's to say? They're just people.

(Anonymous) 2020-05-10 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
So you're just into the dom/sub stuff? That wouldn't really necessitate an ABO setting to get that sort of dynamic though so I'm curious what you get out of it specifically being ABO and not just kinky shit in general.

(Anonymous) 2020-05-10 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
No, I'm not into the D/s stuff much at all. I'm into heats, and self-lubricating butts, and giant cocks with knots on them. Those three elements comprise about 90% of what I'm into a/b/o for.

But none of those things inherently correlate with personality or D/s roles. Personally, I prefer fics where the Omega is more independent and assertive and prone to physically defending their mate, while the alpha is more easy going and gentle and a bit emotionally needy.