[ SECRET POST #4875 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4875 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

What do you mean, almost cheating? Like thinking about cheating and opening your phone to text the other person for a date but then changing your mind and putting your phone down? Hooray for the thought crime police!

[(Anonymous)]

That's pretty terrible, anon. I'd feel pretty scummy if I tried that shit, but maybe that's because I have a conscience. idk about you.

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DA

That IS conscience. Feeling the temptation and resisting it is pretty much the definition of what conscience is. It's easy to resist a temptation you never feel. Real difficult morality is when you feel a desire to do something you know is wrong, so you don't do it.

[(Anonymous)]

NA - This, this, this.

I'm not gonna lie, if I knew my partner had thought seriously about cheating on me, and had wanted to cheat on me, that would really, really hurt, even though they did nothing wrong.

But the bottom line is still: they did nothing wrong. And I think the more mature a person is, the more they realize that no relationship is idyllic. Almost every long-term relationship involves a point (whether it's a moment or a decade) where one or both parties aren't sure if it's working. Obviously, there's a point where the healthy thing to do is to break it off. But realizing that no relationship is perfect and that no partner is perfect and accepting that is important too, imo.

[(Anonymous)]

OFGS how old are you? Implying someone doesn't have a conscience because they are tempted and resist is extremely immature - also fundamentally dishonest and hypocritical. No-one is saying they feel good about temptation - just that it happens and is human.

/married 35 years here and never cheated, jsyk

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NA

I think fantasizing about other people is totally normal, that should never be an issue. People get to have their own private sex lives in their own heads, whether they're in a committed relationship or not.

If it gets THAT close to actual physical sexual cheating, like one text away, that's worrying.

But the person who closes the phone and decides not to do that has done a good thing.