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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-06-02 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #4897 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4897 ⌋

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[the promised neverland]


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[ojamajo doremi]


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Re: Should you give gay guys more of a pass for sexism than straight guys?

(Anonymous) 2020-06-03 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
This. So tired of men getting alllll the slack for being "good guys" when "good" is defined as "standards so incredibly low you'd have to be an utter cretin not to meet them". Besides, who needs even mildly shitty friends? Life's too short. Get out there, make friends who don't need you to make excuses for their sexism and misogyny.

I get that women especially receive a tremendous amount of pressure to be nice and forgiving about shitty men. Like maybe if we just explained it (gently, of course!) the shitty men would understand that sexism is bad? Even OP is wondering if geez, maybe their standards of not wanting their friend to say shitty, sexist things about women is asking too much? IT IS NOT ASKING TOO MUCH. When you put up with bullshit, your reward for being so nice and tolerant is more bullshit.