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⌈ Secret Post #4897 ⌋

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[the promised neverland]

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I mean, maybe it's a good idea to not go nuclear just because your friend is dumb sometimes? Some people have blind spots, or views that would irritate the shit out of people more enlightened on a subject. I'm sure even you, OP, and everyone on this thread has a blind spot. Even I do.

I'm not saying give him a pass, but someone can generally be a good person while having views you don't necessarily agree with. (And if the views bother you, you can always challenge them.)

And I'm guessing someone is going to respond to this going OMG U SEXIST BAD PERSON FUCK. To which I say chill the fuck out and stop automatically assuming malice. It's not like the friend is claiming women need to be barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen, only satisfying their man and never having any rights. Going off of what OP says, it just sounds like he's stuck on an antiquated custom and really hasn't gotten a clue. (Unless there are other instances of blatant sexism OP hasn't mentioned.) It's not really clear how the conversation about fathers giving daughters away in marriage came about.

Personally, I'd be more concerned about the friend saying the guy needs a woman to educate him. No, he just needs to be educated, and it doesn't matter who does it.

+1, thank you

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