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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-06-03 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #4898 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4898 ⌋

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Re: How do you feel about people being sad about "missed milestones" when there's a tragedy?

(Anonymous) 2020-06-04 02:51 am (UTC)(link)
It bothers me when other people project that on other people, yes. I think because I lost a parent and lots of adults were quick to do the same to me and to be way too friendly because they thought I needed a replacement parent or someone to do whatever activity with.

It would be different if the kids themselves were saying this is what they miss or are sad about.

Re: How do you feel about people being sad about "missed milestones" when there's a tragedy?

(Anonymous) 2020-06-04 03:47 am (UTC)(link)
OP

I'm really sorry you had to go through that.

I think in general, when people lose someone, other people would be better off just listening to what they have to say about their loved one rather than just projecting things onto them that they may not feel.