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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-06-03 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #4898 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4898 ⌋

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[kimetsu no yaiba (demon slayer)]


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Re: How do you feel about people being sad about "missed milestones" when there's a tragedy?

(Anonymous) 2020-06-04 04:18 am (UTC)(link)
Who knows. If he did grow up in a conservative area, maybe all the women in his family wanted to be married so he was just going off of that, not thinking that not every girl will grow up to be a bride? Idk. People have blind spots, even the ones you would think are more progressive. (I've known several black folks in America who think homosexuality is an abomination, and will never budge from that position.)

Anyway, during a tragedy, I'd probably just let a comment like that slide. But if he keeps repeating it later on, you're entirely welcome to say that not all girls want to be married, and even the ones that do don't necessarily want their daddy walking them down the aisle. Not that it's up to you to educate him... it's just an option.