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fandomsecrets2008-12-02 05:04 pm
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[ SECRET POST #697 ]
⌈ Secret Post #697 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Notes:
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Re: 167
Fuck those people.
I know what the pressure is like when you want to fit in and look perfect and god those other people just look so beautiful. But a lot of them are only beautiful on the outside, and sometimes, you gotta take the high road and do what YOU think is best for you and not what others think. As ridiculously corny as it sounds, being genuinely happy is more beautiful than being that "perfect size."
There isn't a perfect size. I bet you looked beautiful when you had that "extra" 15 pounds. The best thing I could recommend to you is this:
Ask for help. Not on the internet, not even to your family, not to those who dislike you for petty reasons (they are the ones who should change, not you), but to someone who can actually help you. They can give you much better advice than I could. They could help you come to accept yourself a little more so that when those others push you aside, you can slowly gain the confidence to not take to heart what they say. Someone like that, whether it's a therapist or a counselor or a priest or whomever, could also help you gear up for moving out of a place like that. If the people in the town you live in are all mostly like that, you are not in a healthy environment. Someone could help you take the steps to moving into or creating a healthier one.
Yeah, it's hard to find someone to talk to like that, and it took me a few years to find someone I was comfortable talking to when I was in a bad spot myself (I had the reverse of your problem- I ate my feelings, and was encouraged to do so by friends), but I found them. And now? Yeah, I'm not exactly Hollywood size, but I'm confident, and I moved to a place in college where I could know for a fact that my friends and colleagues would value my intelligence and my actions more than my waist size.
Wow that was long. Ok. Basically? I understand where's your coming from, you are obviously an intelligent person, you were beautiful before you lost those pounds, the last thing you need to do right now is continue hurting yourself (because the benefits of that "perfect size" are soon going to be far exceeded by the negative effects of anorexia), you need to start looking for someone who will help you get through this in a professional but kind manner, and I wish you the best of luck!<3
I bed thee goodnight, anon, and I'm hoping for the best for you.
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