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[ SECRET POST #4899 ]

⌈ Secret Post #4899 ⌋

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[life by keiko suenobu]

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[phantom of the opera]

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If you could say anything to one person, however long or short, without consequence, what would you say? Context optional; can be good or bad.

When you say it's necessary for you to fly abroad four times a year or your life wouldn't be living, can you not hear how you sound?

You own your house with garden. You have a secure job that pays three times the national average household wage. You can afford two expensive hobbies and multiple holidays a year. At a time when the entire world is facing both economic ruin and climate change related disaster... CAN YOU NOT HEAR HOW GODDAMN SELFISH YOU SOUND?

DA

Ohhhhhh, lord, yeah, that would drive me bonkers, too.

I'm envious of that kind of life, but yeah, really obnoxious that someone takes that for granted without thinking about how #entitledrichperson it sounds.

Re: Not inspired by anything in particular

(Anonymous) - 2020-06-05 00:04 (UTC) - Expand

Re: Not inspired by anything in particular

(Anonymous) - 2020-06-05 00:20 (UTC) - Expand

Well, they're entitled to live that kind of life, I suppose... but yeah, they need to shut the fuck up and not whine about that stuff around people who can barely afford plane tickets across the country, much less abroad.

I liked learning. I didn't like learning from you because you were a giant asshole and I was afraid you would make fun of me.

You don't have to keep pretending I don't disgust you. It's been the kinda week where I'm just... i'm done. Saying right out to my face that you can't wait to be shot of me can only be water off a duck's back at this point.

That sounds like a really crappy feeling, anon. What has this person done to make you think they feel this way?

You don't need to keep working yourself until you break, it doesn't make you weak or any less to put yourself and your health above the need to finish and complete something all at once. It will still be there tomorrow, but you just might not be if you continue as you are.
Your drive is part what makes you great, but you're so much more than that as well. Everybody has their limits, there is no shame, and nothing wrong with prospering within your own.

I don't know how to feel about you anymore. You were one of the nicest people I'd met since moving back home and the person I considered my closest friend. I knew you were relatively conservative, but I never realized you were that kind of conservative. You've always been so kind to everyone. I finally came out to you last week on the phone. I was an idiot. And you said that while you still respect and care for me, you believe that homosexuality is wrong.

But I still care for you. You are still my closest friend. It hurt. Still hurts. Hurts that there really is no one I can be out to since my family would disown me, and now I know my friend thinks being gay or bisexual is a choice and wrong. But I don't have anyone else. Things won't be the same. But I'll go back to hiding that part of myself around you.

I'm so sorry, anon.

Oh, man. I'm so sorry.

*hugs*

Pay me back the money you owe me. I know you have enough to spend it on frivolous things for yourself. I need it for essential things for me.

I feel sorry for whatever woman is involved with you now.

+1

I hear someone had a kid with him

fucking yikes

Re: Not inspired by anything in particular

greghousesgf - 2020-06-05 01:47 (UTC) - Expand

I know you stole my Tamagotchi. I didn't tell anyone because I didn't want you to get in trouble, but I wish you'd given it back.

I can't understand why anyone made you a mod. The conversation that was so upsetting to folks quickly died down, because the person realized what they said was upsetting and promised to stop, and did, out of respect for the other people. Your idea of keeping order is to wait hours after the conversation has died down, THEN make a big show of publicly admonishing the offender while telling them to think before they speak (which by the way, wasn't the problem). And you didn't even the details right because you couldn't be bothered to pay attention.

I was so disgusted by the incident, and by your haughty declaration that you were a mod, that I don't even bother with the place anymore. I can only hope you pissed off enough people to be removed. But considering the place moves at lightning speed, probably not.

Please, please, please leave me and my family alone. Yes, we were best friends once. For three years, in elementary school. We are 36, and I already told you 15 years ago that we weren't friends anymore after what you did. I don't want to talk to you. Every time you pester my parents because they're too kind to unfriend you on Facebook, I get just a little more scared of you, because I can't figure out why you're still so obsessed. We have nothing in common. I am not your savior. If your life sucks, sort it out yourself; I have nothing to do with it, and I never will again. Just leave us alone!

Unfortunately, pleading with someone to leave you alone is still giving them the attention they want, because some people are so nuts that even negative attention is worth it to them. Tell them one more time not to contact you ever again for any reason, block them on EVERYTHING, block them on your parents' behalf and tell everyone who bugs you about it that you have a stalker who will not leave you alone.

Re: Not inspired by anything in particular

(Anonymous) - 2020-06-05 03:18 (UTC) - Expand

It was me all along!

No context

Making secrets from anon comments, regularly trolls FS, was tar season anon, still making a spreadsheet of FSer’s info, masterminding an international smuggling ring, snuck some aliens out of area 51, ate the last donut...?

Re: Not inspired by anything in particular

case - 2020-06-05 06:15 (UTC) - Expand

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Re: Not inspired by anything in particular

(Anonymous) - 2020-06-05 07:49 (UTC) - Expand

You aren't nearly as righteous and good as you think you are. Stop rationalizing your bad behavior and do fucking better.

you lived with me for a year. I cared about you. I wanted to get you out of an abusive situation since that was what happened to me. Pay it forward.

I warned you, when your sister came back into your life. I warned you she would try to buy your love and worm her way back in. That she missed her punching bag and slave. I warned you about the laptop she bought you. We let slide how much you owed us in money, even if it was all frivolous shit. We let slide so many small things, you were recovering. Then you got back into contact with her. Suddenly, you were always too sick to help out. You grew distant and demanding. Because you weren't a "priority." I have a disabled wife who is borderline bedridden, and because we didn't always buy you food with our personal funds when we DoorDashed, you weren't a priority. Even after the ten thousandth ER visit two hours away that turned up nothing. You literally cost a friend his union job because he had to take off so often to take you to bullshit ER visits. You got upset when we dare be upset with you, or try to talk to you about issues.

And your cat. You never let us discipline him. It was ineffectual, "X stop!" or the occasional water bottle (I hate the water bottle!) instead of a light tap which is, you know, how cats communicate with each other. And apparently nudging him out of the way with a foot on the hardwood floor, which he loves being slid across, is the same as kicking him.

You were ungrateful. When you lost your own laptop, you demanded we replace it or you'd withhold rent. Instead of looking in the one place I told you to look. Then you took it with you when you left. You demanded use of my PS4 whenever you wanted. You demanded so many things of us. And it all started when your sister got a hold of you. She sank her claws in, put thoughts in your head that turned you against us. And now you've run back to her.

I hope it's worth it, because I can't save you again. I hope you're willing to put up with her locking your cat up as often as possible. I hope you're willing to put up with her taking all your money and having NO financial freedom. I hope you don't come crawling back to us. Because we won't take you. Not when we can't guarantee you won't run back to her again. Not when you treated us like shit and lied and lied and lied about blocking us on social media before you even moved out. Not when you can demand things of us so casually.

I'm not going to be your savior when you need one, because you made progress and threw it all out for the poison we told you she would spew.

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