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⌈ Secret Post #698 ⌋

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101.

[The Crüxshadows]

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102.

[LotR, Merlin]

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103.

[Secret Saturdays, Marvel Comics]

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104.

[Soul Eater]

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105.

[Yotsuba&!]

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106.

[Transformers: Armada]

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107.

[Dresden Dolls]

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108. [repeat]

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109.

[Stephanie Meyer]

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110.

[Spoiler (DC), Edward (Twilight)]

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111.

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112.

[Knights of the Old Republic]

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113.

[Fullmetal Alchemist]

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114.

[December Boys]

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115.

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116.

[Ghost Hunters]

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117.

[Bloody Monday]

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118.

[Ranma 1/2]

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119.

[James Spader]

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120.

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121.

[Taylor Swift]

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122.

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123.

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124.

[Edward Norton]

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125.

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126.

[The Devil's Whore]

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127.

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128.

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129.

[Arthur]

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130.

[Gankutsuou]

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131. [repeat]

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132.

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133.

[Metal Gear Solid/"Let's Destroy Metal Gear!"]

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134.

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135.

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136.

[Supernatural]

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137.

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138.

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139.

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140.

[Assassins]

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141.

[Heroes]

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142.

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143.

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144.

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145.

[Evangelion]

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146.

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147.

[Gokusen]

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148.

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149.

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150.

[Left 4 Dead]

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151.

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152.

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153.

[Saw 5]

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154.

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156.

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158.

[Legally Blonde]

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159.

[Cobra Starship]

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160.

[Harry Potter]

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The thing is, it wasn't a reality of losing Dawn until/unless it happened. I actually began and scrapped some huge rambly meta thing for another fandom at one point that kinda went into this. XD But... it doesn't always make sense. But I do believe that most people have at least one other person, maybe even a group of people, that they'd do anything for, because they couldn't imagine not doing so. I know that I have one or two people that, if I saw they were about to die, and I could get in the way of that -- even if it meant dying -- I'd do it without even thinking about it. I know it'd be horrible, but it's not a totally logical issue. It wasn't fair and it was heartbreaking for everyone, but if she loved Dawn so much that she just couldn't stand there and watch her die, not if she could do something, anything to save her... I think that's a weakness but it also made her unbelievably strong. I'd like to think I'd have the guts to not just be faced with the prospect of "but I would die, I would cease to be, I would hurt and end, better them than me surely?" and freeze until it was too late, or second-guess my actions until it was too late. It was a pretty impossible decision to make, and neither option was good, but... she couldn't watch her sister die. She had the guts to do whatever she had to to keep it happening. Weakness and a great deal of strength there.

Yeah, that was definitely a crappy thing to do. I mostly can forgive it because it does sound highly traumatic, and it wasn't a good or fair thing for her to do, but... when she finally confesses it, it's not like she has a choice for one thing (she was trying not to tell people, but Lol Musical Truth Demon :|), and I can definitely see her being torn between wanting to be the strong pillar that she's supposed to be and giving in and letting her friends know she's unhappy and needs help and support. It's weak of her, but I can't hate her for that.

It's okay, I talk way too much, myself. XD; Suicide is totally an issue for me, too, but I also think there's a difference between suicide and sacrifice, and can sympathize a lot more with the latter because it's not as... unhealthy mentally? I mean that while a suicidal person just wants to make the pain stop, or thinks that no one will miss them, no one will care, and/or the world will be a better place without them, the person sacrificing themself may know it's not at all true but realize it's what they have to do.) IF ANY OF THAT MAKES SENSE.

That makes a lot of sense, but it still reads to me as her martyring herself because she couldn't stand any more loss. I think there's a difference between dying for someone so that they can live and dying for someone because you don't want to watch them die. It reads as selfish, to me, and then when you couple that with her season six personality, it really indicates to me that she had just given up and wanted out of her life, which, yes, was difficult, but she had so many people that loved her and helped her and were willing to help her shoulder that burden (even if she didn't want their help, ala Spike or debateably Anya). The line between sacrifice and suicide is blurred, especially in a fantasy series like BtVS, but if Dawn had died, there would have at least have been a feeling of "it had to be done". Buffy changing places was sort of needless and her using the opportunity to get out at the expense of others. There's a point, I think, where bearing so much of the burden crosses the line from strength to weakness, more specifically to self-centeredness (is that a word?) and egotism.

I do think a lot of this was writerly fault, especially that when Buffy died she went to Heaven. At least when she killed Angel, there was a sense of real sacrifice, in that she was killing the man she loved, there were consequences for her, there was loss. Buffy not only got an easy out, she got rewarded for it, not very much of a sacrifice, to me.

I honestly have to disagree with you here. Even with her conflicting characterization in season four, the choice in the finale boils down to either her baby sister or her dying.

Dawn might grieve, but she will /live/.

And honestly I think her friends are the awful selfish ones here. They can't deal with their grief so they drag Buffy out of /heaven/.

She was dead and buried and at peace. They force her to dig herself out of her own /grave/ and live in a world that is a living hell for her because their inability to let go.

Her friends hurt her and caused her more pain than any villian she fought ever could.

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