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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-06-13 02:23 pm

[ SECRET POST #4908 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4908 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2020-06-14 04:38 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT—I literally do not care if people are gender conforming or not. Gender (and sexuality) policing sucks. People who do it suck. People who are “skeptical” of trans people and (in your case) trans women’s self identifying suck. Okay?

Trans women aren’t fucking hurting you. Trans women aren’t men. Men as a group often suck and I don’t normally “not all men” but I’m gonna go ahead and say that transphobes suck more than a lot of individual men. Most men are mostly fucking steeped in patriarchy and privilege and most TERFS probably aren’t and still fucking suck at not conflating trans women with men, so they manage to be just as bad as some asshole men who got all their sex ed from porn and think women were created from Adam’s rib to be his subordinate.

Misgendering does not suddenly become less shitty when it’s done to a trans woman than a cis woman. I am not trans, so I can’t speak for them, but I am speaking for myself when I say if you misgender someone by invalidating what they themselves identify as, no matter what they (or their genitalia) look like, you are an asshole. Full stop.

(Anonymous) 2020-06-14 06:47 am (UTC)(link)
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(Anonymous) 2020-06-14 12:59 pm (UTC)(link)
I don’t normally “not all men” but I’m gonna go ahead and say that transphobes suck more than a lot of individual men.

Of course.

(Anonymous) 2020-06-14 02:15 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT—it’s not because they are amazing and wonderful. They mostly still suck. It’s because they frequently don’t understand their own privilege or the existence of the patriarchy or anything about how they benefit specifically from being men.

TERFS definitely know men benefit from being men, but persist in identifying a subset of women as men because oh no icky penises. You guys gonna do the same thing when trans men’s dicks are indistinguishable from cis men’s?