[ SECRET POST #4919 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4919 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 21 secrets from Secret Submission Post #704.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Other comment reminded me that I've been meaning to post this

[(Anonymous)]

I'm a cis woman, but I can't watch anything involving trans people being bullied or going through trauma. I was repeatedly, knowingly misgendered by bullies as a kid because I wasn't traditionally feminine and developed late. Watching things like this brings that trauma up for me. I feel guilty about it because I'm not trans so it isn't like I went through what they went through and it feels like I might be being transphobic in avoiding this way. But I just can't handle being brought back to those childhood moments.

Re: Other comment reminded me that I've been meaning to post this

[(Anonymous)]

Let me just be explicitly clear that there is absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting to watch things that are traumatic for you whether you are cis or trans. And I'm sorry that happened to you.

Re: Other comment reminded me that I've been meaning to post this

[(Anonymous)]

That’s not transphobic, that’s just good mental hygiene. There’s absolutely no need to feel bad about it.

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[(Anonymous)]

by a secret maker

Re: Other comment reminded me that I've been meaning to post this

[(Anonymous)]

I'm trans, and I don't think that's transphobic to want to avoid. I went through a lot of bullying for looking gay and gender nonconforming before I even knew those were things someone could actually be, let alone knowing I could be trans, and it didn't feel any better before I identified that way. I'm sorry you experienced that.

I can see it maybe being transphobic if you avoided anything to do with trans people in fiction, or if you claimed you had the exact same experiences as a trans person and thus could speak for them IRL, but I don't see any of that here— what you said really sounds fine to me.

I have a brain like a sieve, so apologies in advance for maybe replying the same thing again whenever the secret goes up on f!s. I just wanted to say that there's nothing weird or offensive to me about what you said!