[ SECRET POST #4933 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4933 ⌋

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Comments

Re: How would you feel in this situation/should I leave him?

[caecilia]

Okay, setting aside your first paragraph for now, I'm just gonna break this down.

1. You are allowed to break up with anyone for any reason. The only reason you need is that you want to break up.

2. You say you have no interest in anything long term. But like - just look into the future for a minute. If you don't break up with him now, when? A year from now? Five? Are you going to be with him five years from now, looking back and thinking about all the time you wasted? All the other people you could've dated?

3. That said if you feel like this is something worth talking to him about and working on then you should really start an open honest convo first. Actually, even if you are breaking up with him...it's perfectly fine to tell him why.

4. Ultimately you need to stop thinking about what "everyone" is going to think and do what's best for you. Like, please anon. I'm not saying break up with him unless that's what YOU decide is best but like do you really want to be miserable with a dude because you're afraid of other people villainizing you. Also he might be a great guy but not a great boyfriend TO YOU. They're not mutually exclusive.

5. Honestly I said I was putting the first paragraph on hold but I don't really feel like I need to address it. He could be gay and in love with his best friend or he could not but ultimately this is about YOUR happiness.

Which brings me full circle: if you wanna break up, break up.