[ SECRET POST #4933 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4933 ⌋

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Comments

Re: How would you feel in this situation/should I leave him?

[(Anonymous)]

Breaking up with him specifically because he's gay, when he doesn't identify as gay - I do not think that's a good decision at all. I think it would be a ridiculous decision and you would certainly be in the wrong. I think, one, let the evil be sufficient unto the day; two, I think it is his right to decide that he does in fact want to be with you, not your right to decide that he doesn't. I don't think it's fundamentally different from breaking up with someone because you don't think you're good enough for them, which I think we should be able to recognize is chickenshit.

If you think that his emotional friendship with his friend is a problem for your relationship with him and if it makes you feel neglected, or if there are other problems in the relationship, that would be a different matter. But I can't emphasize strongly enough that I think breaking up with him because you fear that he will eventually recognize that he is gay would be a mistake.