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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-07-15 06:18 pm

[ SECRET POST #4940 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4940 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2020-07-15 10:32 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't have any advice, just... very much know the feeling and I sympathize.

[personal profile] juliamon 2020-07-15 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
As a chat mod for some streamers and residual involvement with others... as long as you stay aware of your actions and don't actively do anything creepy towards them, it's fine. Normal, even. Remember that just because they might see and acknowledge your posts in chat or your donations doesn't mean you're now friends. It will always be a broadly one-sided relationship, and at most you'll be just one slightly less anonymous face in the community. Get to know them through their streams rather than creeping into their DMs.

(Anonymous) 2020-07-15 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)
You're not being creepy.

(Anonymous) 2020-07-16 02:53 am (UTC)(link)
No, dude. You're helping their popularity and income. They aren't gonna be mad about that.

Besides, people have crushed on celebrities, stars and politicians for centuries. You're right in line with standard human behavior. Shit, Hollywood has been making BANK on it since the days of Mary Pickford. Why do you think Hollywood prefers attractive actors instead of the average joe or jane? Because they know eye candy puts butts in seats, that's why! Brad Pitt's name on the poster is 200pt instead of 10pt because he was hot stuff and people would go just to see him do Brad Pitt shit on-screen.

The line is if you're stalking them, sending unsolicited messages, going to their houses or actively seeking them out unannounced and in person, sending naked pics of yourself or looking up naked pics of them that they didn't deliberately release... that sort of stuff. Or if you're obsessing to the point that you're not functioning or relating to others healthily. Basically if you transition from watching to actively soliciting. It comes down to whether or not they're uncomfortable because of you.

If you're not doing any of those things, enjoy your sexy show and keep helping your fave make a dime. Win/win!
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[personal profile] epicurean 2020-07-16 08:01 am (UTC)(link)
You just have a crush, nothing creepy about it. As long as you don't go overboard like stalking or such.

(Anonymous) 2020-07-16 08:21 am (UTC)(link)
No need to worry bub, you're good. Honestly I think they've hooked you in all of this! You're one of however many fans who do this exact thing, the only thing you have to worry about is if you can afford it I guess!

(Anonymous) 2020-07-16 08:27 am (UTC)(link)
Buddy, the feelings you are having are their exact business model

(Anonymous) 2020-07-22 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
This secret is so pretty! Thanks for making it! (also yes super late)

Also thank you for all your comments, I feel a bit better now, but I will watch myself and make sure I don't make them feel uncomfortable.