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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2008-12-14 05:14 pm

[ SECRET POST #709 ]


⌈ Secret Post #709 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 17 pages, 416 secrets from Secret Submission Post #102.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 3 4 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: 173 OP

(Anonymous) 2008-12-15 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
My fandom preferences do not equal my general moral values, thank you very much.

I know that there are plenty of het fans who work hard for GLBT rights. I'm sorry if I implied otherwise. My point was that the subject of homophobia isn't going to come up very much in het fandoms, so there'd be no reason to discuss it.
azurite: (sailormoon - mars they don't know i burn)

Re: 173 OP

[personal profile] azurite 2008-12-15 01:35 pm (UTC)(link)
I think the idea of there being a "het fandom" is fairly ludicrous. What is it, Rule 34 says that there'll be porn of it, no matter what it is? If there's not already, a corollary to that: if it exists, there's slash of it. NO MATTER WHAT.

So for those of us that like het pairings, yeah, we might complain about homophobia because we (for writing/drawing het) get accused of *being* homophobic! It's rather annoying. I'm one of those het fans who works hard for GLBT rights, but I don't write/draw for any slash pairings. I don't have anything against them, I'm not homophobic, but I often get accused of being as such.

Re: 173 OP

(Anonymous) 2008-12-15 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow, I was even less coherent that I thought. Let's try this again.

The OP said:

But when you get people saying someone HAS TO BE GAY and saying that the het shippers for that character are just homophobic, you're watering down the ugliness of homophobia. I've been on both sides of the isle in quite a few fandoms, and there's a whole lot less vocalization from het side.

Homophobia is fast becoming the new Godwin's Law for a lot of fandoms.


When I said that "het fans don't talk about homophobia" I meant "het fans don't talk about homophobia when they're talking about the characters they ship." However, it seems like a lot of people have interpreted this as "het fans never talk about homophobia, ever, for any reason." There are a lot of het fans who, in one way or another, support GLBT rights. I know that. But I wasn't talking about what people do in real life -- I was talking about discussions of shipping. And there isn't a reason for a het fan to assume that a person who dislikes their pairing is motivated by homophobia.

But there are still a lot of homophobes running around fandom, criticizing slash. And as long as there are people out there who dislike slash because it insults the characters, or perverts their wonderful, pure platonic love, then homophobia will be relevant to slashers. Does this make a little more sense?
azurite: (believe in subtext)

Re: 173 OP

[personal profile] azurite 2008-12-16 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, it makes much more sense, except this line:

And there isn't a reason for a het fan to assume that a person who dislikes their pairing is motivated by homophobia.

I'm a het fan. If someone dislikes my pairing, I don't know if they are also a het fan that just likes another pairing more, a gen fan who dislikes pairings of all kinds, or a slash fan who dislikes het-- unless they tell me so. And I would only imagine that a slash fan who encounters someone who dislikes their pairing might have a reason to assume that other person could be homophobic-- I don't see how it could apply to het fans at all. (That said, you're right about how one's fandom activities don't always translate over to RL, and vice-versa. So even in the situation I mentioned, a slash fan SHOULDN'T assume someone is homophobic just because someone doesn't like the pairing. But it does depend on how the person who disliked the pairing vocalized themselves. For example, if something is blatantly marked as Guy A x Guy B, why the heck would anti-slash fan read it in the first place? People do tend to do that just to complain about the existence of slash supposedly "sullying" their pairings, and that MIGHT come across as more than a tad homophobic because, after all, it IS just a pairing in a fandom.)