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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2008-12-14 05:14 pm

[ SECRET POST #709 ]


⌈ Secret Post #709 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Left to Post: 17 pages, 416 secrets from Secret Submission Post #102.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 3 4 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
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[identity profile] ranaeressea.livejournal.com 2008-12-15 09:42 am (UTC)(link)
I have to strongly disagree with this. Psychological studies have shown that when a person's fantasy material becomes more outrageous, they can develop more sexual problems than people with tame fantasies. For instance, they may get off on rape material at first and let's say it's the least brutal form of rape. Eventually, that isn't enough for them and they need a stronger "high," thus seeking out harsher rape fantasies in order to get off. In the end, with many cases it's hard to ever find sexual pleasure from normal things anymore because only hardcore and extreme situations get the person off.

IMO, the more "out there" your fantasy is, the less healthy it is for you and your sexual life as well as your emotional and sexual well-being.

If only brutal rape or forcible incest, etc. gets a person off, I think consulting a psychologist is a good thing to do. Not because they're crazy, but because something IS wrong with your mental well-being if you can't get pleasure from normal things anymore.

Of course, this doesn't apply to people who have rape/incest/etc. fantasies and still have a pleasurable and normal sex life outside of those fantasies. Those who develop addictions, though, probably should seek help for why only those things trigger the pleasure responses in the brain.