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fandomsecrets2008-12-14 05:14 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2008-12-14 05:14 pm
[ SECRET POST #709 ]
⌈ Secret Post #709 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 17 pages, 416 secrets from Secret Submission Post #102.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 3 4 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: 167
Here's the sweet and sour facts of life: People will judge you on anything and everything (Which I'm sure you'll state you already know. In which case, stop acting like a whining child about it.).
Bitch, moan, and complain all you want. Whine about their intellects (or lack thereof) until you're blue in the face, or drunk off your ass (which you claim to be). It won't stop them from judging everything you do.
That's human nature. It's a survival instinct. We judge people because, in a very primitive fashion, we're trying to figure out if that person is safe to be around. If they're someone we'd be comfortable being in proximity to.
Whether their judgment has a ring of truth in it or not, that is how just about everyone in the world is in some way, shape, or form.
Obviously, not all judgments are fair. Some of them are ridiculous. Thinking a person's kink corresponds to whether or not they're a good person is outlandish. Does it happen? Yes. Will it always happen? YES.
Suck it up, kid. Life's not fair.
You can't expect people to understand every aspect of you and your friends' lives. Especially when it involves something that, in mainstream society, is severely frowned upon. Especially since most of mainstream society is not into fandom, and therefore are even more out of the loop of such ideas. People judge your friends based on a kink that includes immoral acts. What a shock! You can't really expect most people to try to relate to it, can you? It's not exactly a fluffy bunny kink, and being bitter over people looking down upon it is a bit ridiculous.
I'm not denouncing your fetish. You like what you like, and I understand that it doesn't necessarily reflect on who you are as a person. But getting angry that people in general judge by what is considered by most a rather dubious kink is acting far too self-righteous.
Re: 167
(Anonymous) 2008-12-17 12:58 am (UTC)(link)The peoples judgment of me is generally a delicious loli or the utterly batshit internet lurker with some of the most fucked up things out there -I accept these judgment because that is how I have chosen to be judged. I'm in a spot of social manipulation I can be anything I want people to think of me as. If I chose to be viewed as a furry I could make that so, if I chose to be viewed as a naive child I could make it so, I can be whatever I want a person to see me as and they don't know it.
Though honestly, I'm not bitter about people looking down on those kinks I am just bitter in general -misanthropy tends to do that.
My anger comes, always, from someone not doing the research. Not picking up on the most basic things of common sense. Human's will always single things out.
But what I have pointed out in the secret and multiple times in this conversation is the violence in tv and violence in video games arguments.