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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-08-08 03:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #4963 & 4964 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4963 & 4964 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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03. [SPOILERS for season 6 of 'the blacklist']
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04. [SPOILERS for Avatar the Last Airbender]



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05. [WARNING for discussion of rape]



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06. [WARNING for discussion of homophobia/biphobia]



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07. [WARNING for discussion of sexual assault]



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08. [WARNING for discussion of transphobia]



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09. [WARNING for discussion of rape]























Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 52 secrets from Secret Submission Post #711.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 (warning for pedophilia, suicide) - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2020-08-09 01:55 am (UTC)(link)
yanno, this is actually good on you for realising that you read that poorly when younger and know your mistakes and haven't repeated them.

a lot of biphobia is centered around this sacrosanct concept of "cheating" and the mere idea that someone who has the capacity to like both boys and girls will thus choose both at all times which means they're somehow cheating in their heart even when they have someone they love very much. it's awful, but for people to get past biphobia toward acceptance, they have to see that in themselves and realize how awful it is.

but then, a lot of weird and awful concepts around both attraction and sex are rooted in an unpleasant inability to separate capability/interest from decisive commitment. What you want or are capable of wanting is not the same as what you are doing at present, will do (hypothetically in the future), or want to do.