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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-08-23 04:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #4979 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4979 ⌋

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[Jurassic Park]


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[Jeon Somi]


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[Wynonna Earp]


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[The Untamed]


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[Brian Molko of Placebo + Jay Leno = Noel Fielding]


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[The Untamed]






















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(Anonymous) 2020-08-23 09:45 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT - I am absolutely not telling you how you should feel, but honestly, IMO it's much better if the guy breaks off the friendship if he knows the friendship isn't going to satisfy him.

In my case, the guys always stick around. For years and years. And we're friends, but also, they wish it was more, and we both know it. And at first it seems like no big deal, but over time it starts to eat them up. Like, they could be out dating other girls, but they're not because they're hanging with me. And then I feel horrible for not reciprocating, and they feel horrible for having these feelings and desires that are hopeless and unreturned.

IDK, I guess it's pretty sucky either way. I mean, if the guy just bounces as soon as he finds out he's not going to be scoring with you, I can see how that would really hurt. So maybe I was too hasty to say it's worse when the guy stays and the lack of reciprocity slowly ruins the friendship and causes you both pain over a period of years. Both ways suck.