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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-08-23 04:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #4979 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4979 ⌋

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[Jurassic Park]


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[Jeon Somi]


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[Wynonna Earp]


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[The Untamed]


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[Brian Molko of Placebo + Jay Leno = Noel Fielding]


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[The Untamed]






















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(Anonymous) 2020-08-24 02:38 am (UTC)(link)
As another ace, Ive had this happen and I agree with the anon above me. As much as it sucks to lose the friendship, it's usually easier if the unrequited move off and do their own thing (mostly bc in my experience they are incredibly entitled and gross about it, not bc I feel awkward. I had one guy get violently angry when I cut my hair and even more so when i rightfully pointed out that we weren't together so he had zero say in anything i did with my hair.)

That said, I cherish the guys that stick around all the better, because I know theyre really my friends.

(Anonymous) 2020-08-24 04:16 am (UTC)(link)
I think you're missing the point. It's better when the guy with unrequited love breaks it off because he knows it's going to be awkward for both parties if he likes her and it hurts too much to stick around as just a friend. It's better because he respects that the girl's feelings aren't going to change, so he's not going to be waiting around expecting it to become more than a friendship.

(Anonymous) 2020-08-24 01:23 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm pretty sure he'd have zero say in anything you did with your hair even if you were together.