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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-09-19 04:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #5006 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5006 ⌋

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Re: Controversial Unpopular Opinions?

(Anonymous) 2020-09-20 09:45 am (UTC)(link)
Sorry, but my lack of sexual attraction to RL people predates my having internet access (or zine access, snerk). I read a couple of romance novels pre-having internet, and didn't see the appeal.

I do read smut fic, but in 25+ years of being in online fandom I've only really been interested in smut for two pairings, and tbh I think it's just because when I'm extremely obsessed with a fandom, even stuff I'm normally bored by is interesting.

There are people upthread talking about finding stuff hot in fiction that they'd never condone or enjoy in reality. I don't care if other people have sex IRL (although I had a couple panic attacks when I was younger when friends described their sexual encounters to me, but that's my problem and I kept it to myself) but the thought of having sex with anyone makes me freak out.

I wasn't sexually abused as a kid or anything, or sheltered. I wasn't raised as, and was and am not, religious at all. I had a decent sex education (and read my way through, idk, I think the Masters and Johnson sexuality study? Some thousand-page nonfic book with charts of refractory periods and female vs male orgasms and stuff like that, when I was 8 or 9.)

Purity culture bullshit is ridiculous. People should be able to have all the consensual sex they want with willing partners. But sex just isn't for me. Even being touched nonsexually, or touching other people, is uncomfortable for me.

I do have a sex drive and masturbate though, so idk. I even find people attractive. Just not sexually attractive.