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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-10-04 03:22 pm

[ SECRET POST #5021 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5021 ⌋

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Re: Secret makers thread

(Anonymous) 2020-10-05 12:56 am (UTC)(link)
The scrotum secret made me think of this.

NSFW secret for female medical and sex stuff.

I"m a bi girl, and yet I have issues with vaginas. Breasts are sexy and I'm all about them. Fully naked women are sexy. But I can't have sex due to it causing intense pain when anything is inserted into me. So I have issues with images of open vaginas. I don't find them sexy and in fact often react instinctively with pain to them. Maybe I should give up my bi card, I don't know. I do read femslash but often stop at a certain point. I have a problem. I feel guilty but I can't help my reaction.

Re: Secret makers thread

(Anonymous) 2020-10-05 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think you need to revoke your bi card based on what you've mentioned; plenty of people are tripped out by pussy but are still attracted to women. On the flipside, some people aren't into dick but are into men. There's different things outside of genitalia that a lot of people attribute with 'feminine' and 'masculine' qualities.

Re: Secret makers thread

(Anonymous) 2020-10-05 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think this negates your bisexuality at all. I guess it maybe negates your ability to be in an enjoyable relationship with a woman? But it doesn't change your bi-ness.

I'm sorry it's something you have to deal with, but I really hope you don't beat yourself up about it. I'd never tell you not to feel sad or frustrated, but it's nothing to feel guilty about. :)

Re: Secret makers thread

(Anonymous) 2020-10-05 05:04 am (UTC)(link)
That's what people call a phantom pain I'm pretty sure. You feel intense pain as your experience so seeing a position that would cause pain to you causes you to 'feel' the experience by your own understanding of the position. It has nothing to do with your sexuality.

Re: Secret makers thread

(Anonymous) 2020-10-05 07:59 am (UTC)(link)
"can't have sex due to it causing intense pain when anything is inserted" Sorry to hear about that, but not all sex is or has to be penetrative, no matter what kind of genitalia your partner has.

Re: Secret makers thread

(Anonymous) 2020-10-05 01:24 pm (UTC)(link)
OP of the comment

I'm well aware of that. Oral sex is fine for me both giving and receiving, fingers aren't, any toy that penetrates isn't.

Claimed

(Anonymous) 2020-10-05 05:43 pm (UTC)(link)
by a secret maker

Re: Secret makers thread

(Anonymous) 2020-10-05 09:17 pm (UTC)(link)
You can be bi without being into vaginas. Some women don't have vaginas, and some people have them but don't want to involve them in sex play (you're not the only one).

Being bi does not mean being into every single sex act or body part.