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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-10-05 06:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #5022 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5022 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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(Anonymous) 2020-10-06 08:04 pm (UTC)(link)
But if you're going to have hours long arguments with people, it's good to pick a topic that you actually disagree about instead of building a strawman and beating it all day and night. Most people here are not opposed to cousin relationships, the disagreement is over the morality of sibling and parent/child relationships.

(Anonymous) 2020-10-06 08:21 pm (UTC)(link)
If you say that all incestuous relationships are categorically wrong and abusive, then someone responding by talking about cousin relationships is raising a valid objection. They shouldn't be expected to know that you didn't mean what you said. If you want to be specific about sibling relationships, be specific.

And that's what I disagree with overall - the absolute blanket statements. I agree that most incestuous relationships IRL are bad. I think where we draw that line matters and I think it also has an impact on how we treat fictional incest.

(Anonymous) 2020-10-06 09:31 pm (UTC)(link)
If I say that all incestuous relationships are categorically wrong and abusive, and by "incestous realtionships" i mean the ones that are officially considered incestous in almost all countries in the world, you don't get to show up and bring up a relationship type that a tiny handful of places considers incestous as well and go "gotcha!". If I say that I'm allergic to berries and someone suddenly shows up saying that I should eat berries because berries are good for me, and after a long discussion they suddenly say that they meant bananas the whole time, because it's technically a berry, that person is full of shit.