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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-10-06 06:15 pm

[ SECRFET POST #5023 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5023 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2020-10-07 08:12 am (UTC)(link)
different anon but it seems like guys just have a way easier time with sticking large items up their butts without discomfort. it's like their muscles are a lot looser back there.

This seems like it's probably just a person-specific thing. I'm female, and the first time I tried using my average sized vibrator anally, I did no prep at all and there was zero pain. I wasn't even aroused at the time, I was just like, "Hmm, I wonder..." so I tried it and it went right in. (Compared to vaginal penetration which was very much the opposite experience for me.)

OTOH, John Krokidas, the gay director of Kill Your Darlings, claimed he'd never seen someone's first time having gay sex portrayed accurately on film before, and instructed Daniel Radcliffe to act as though it was really painful.

https://www.gaystarnews.com/article/daniel-radciffe-talks-about-gay-sex-being-painful-especially-first-time151013/

So yeah, it seems to me like it can be difficult for men and easy for women just as much as it can be easy for men and difficult for women.