[ SECRFET POST #5023 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5023 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

Because it isn't healthy to have a family with someone, while being emotionally closer with another person. Family requires a great deal of sacrifice and investment, and there will be times when you will have to sacrifice time with your friends, their needs, and wishes, for the sake of your family's time, needs, and wishes.

If your friend's birthday coincides with your marriage's anniversary, or your kid's school performance, it's expected of you to honor the family's events over attending the friend's party. You can't always expect your friend to reschedule their events for your sake, and you can't drop your family's events for your friends' sake.

If your friend is sick in the hospital, and you have a small child, you can't always afford to meet your friend at the possible cost of spreading the infection to your child. In a healthy marriage, this doesn't go the other way around, you do not refuse to stay in the hospital with your sick spouse, because you're worried your friend might catch it when you see them next. The same goes for your friend - usually you will both have families, and you will both always put the needs of your family over each other's needs.

tl;dr in a healthy marriage, your spouse is supposed to be your best friend