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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-10-06 06:15 pm

[ SECRFET POST #5023 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5023 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2020-10-07 02:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Sure, but prep can vary radically from person to person and act to act. I don't object to being lovingly fingerbanged as foreplay (although it's great as the main event as well). But for my favorite toys a bit of lube and a gentle start are all that's needed. And then there was one time when it just didn't happen, in spite of everything to get warmed up. At a certain point, too much foreplay gets frustrating and painful as well.

I think about the only constant I'd hold to is that more lube is better. But people need to chill when it comes to making universal statements about anal sex. Some butts are very welcoming, others need a bit more coaxing. But the same is true for vaginal and even oral sex. And that also applies to brains, in that some people can jump in a closet and bang to climax in a few minutes while others need an entire afternoon.
arashinoookami: If anyone knows who made this tell me so I can credit them (Foreskin)

[personal profile] arashinoookami 2020-10-08 09:16 am (UTC)(link)
Oh yeah, I know everyone is different, and what works for one person may not for someone else. I was just saying that if porn is what some people use as their reference, there is no prep whatsoever, so they may expect to just be able to stick something in a hole and have it work!
Edited 2020-10-08 09:17 (UTC)