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⌈ Secret Post #724 ⌋

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True story:

Things were getting kinda serious with this guy I was seeing, when he informed me that he really liked getting peed on. It was a difficult and awkward thing for him to bring up, obviously, and I wasn't expecting it, but I tried it with him just to see what it was like. He was really into it (like REALLY into it), but it was so NOT my thing. At all. It wound up being our deal-breaker. I wanted him to find someone who enjoyed that as much as he did, and that someone was not gonna be me, not ever; I couldn't pretend to like it and he knew I couldn't (nor did he expect me to), so that was that.

I know this is an unusual and maybe extreme case here and I swear I'm not trying to freak you (or anybody else) out, but the point is, you can keep your standards and your virginity if you are saving yourself for marriage, but I HIGHLY recommend discussing your sexual preferences (and sexual dislikes!) openly and honestly with your future hubby BEFORE you get married.

YES. I second this suggestion whole heartedly. You don't actually have to act on anything, but I fear you're only setting yourself up for disappointment or outright disaster if you don't at least talk about your sexual expectations before marriage. I have a friend who was absolutely miserable in her marriage because she and her husband didn't hash these issues out before marriage and he absolutely refused to do what she liked. They're divorced now. Mostly because he was a total douche and an alcoholic, but the bedroom issues were fairly significant as well.

Remember: If you can't talk about it, you shouldn't be doing it, marriage or no!

This is what I meant in my comment. Yes keep your standards and yes keep your virginity, but if you really want to be dominated, you and your guy need to know that's going to make both of you happy before you commit to lifelong monogamy. So much cheating and so many visits to sex workers are the result of people who love each other and want to stay married but can't get these urges satisfied at home.

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