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(Anonymous) 2020-11-07 08:35 pm (UTC)(link)I also look forward to that day, OP.
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I do think, though, that there is a sense of kink-shaming that I don't like and trying to "cancel" people for their fantasies and fictional wank material. Not in my fandom, but I've seen it in other places. I avoid the Flightrising tumblrs because they are full of it.
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(Anonymous) 2020-11-07 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)2. Join kink communities.
3. Make friends there and speak of what you like.
4. Offer commissions for kink works.
5. ???
6. Profit.
I'm not being facetious. I've been away from fandom communities since the start of 2020 for my own mental health, decided to participate in kink communities instead, and I realized both how liberating and how peaceful it feels to finally do stuff without fearing you're stepping on any toes.
I'm from outside the US. To me, americans, both the "think-of-the-children" puritans and the "your-kink-is-problematic" police, are really sexually frustrated, to the point of being afraid of expressing any sort of sexuality.
I don't mean this in a bad way, but you're going to be way happier with people like you. It's a matter of finding them. Your own happiness with a work and with a kink matter far more than the community you think you ought to stay in.
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(Anonymous) 2020-11-07 11:04 pm (UTC)(link)ayrt
(Anonymous) 2020-11-07 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)They will be smaller communities, but they are easier to manage, and the bonds you make there will be stronger than those of random fans.
We have a saying here: Better alone than in bad company.
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(Anonymous) 2020-11-08 05:52 am (UTC)(link)I came back to a dearly-loved fandom after nearly 20 years away, only to find haters bitching in the public tags about my ship when it was never a problem back then.
Fandom really has gone to pot in certain sections of the internet.