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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2009-01-08 04:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #734 ]


⌈ Secret Post #734 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Arwin/"The Suite Life of Zack and Cody"]


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[Wizards of Waverly Place, Justin/Alex]


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[Gundam 00, Lockon Stratos]


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[CW RPF]


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[Supernatural]


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[OEL, Christy Lijewski]


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[The Talented Mr Ripley]


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[Ed O'Brien/Josh Homme]


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[How I Met Your Mother]


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[Fire Emblem: The Sacred Stones]


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[Metallica]


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[Sid Meier's Alpha Centauri]


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[Teddy Ruxpin, Baldur's Gate]


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[Frost/Nixon, David Frost]


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[Steve Guttenberg & Paul o'Grady - The Paul o'Grady Show]


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[Life]


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[Malin Berggren, Ace of Base]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 082 secrets from Secret Submission Post #105.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 3 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 1 2 3 4 5 - repeat ], [ 1 - personal attack ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: #114, 128, 156, 163

[identity profile] radiopowered.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 06:42 am (UTC)(link)
I never said anything about -you yourself- having to care about what other people think of you, especially on the internet. If you yourself are capable of dealing with those interactions with people, whether it be online or in real life, and find it no skin off your back to live with the fact that someone might not like you for certain reasons or judge you for things that you like, dislike, etc., then good for you. All the power to you.

However, -there are people who can't do that-, for an array of reasons (most of which are in the comments replying to the anon that replied to my response of this secret), and it bothers me to have these people treated as if there is something wrong with them. That they're weak or too self-concious and insecure or don't have a backbone/spine or WHATEVER. This is just how these people are, and there is nothing wrong with the inherit nature of a human being. It is a huge burden, yes, and it's not something that you would want to live with, but it happens, and will continue to happen. Getting on their case about it will do nothing except make them feel worse about it then they probably already do.

Also, may I ask where exactly in my comment you heard me say that one should worry about the opinions of others on the internet? All I did was make an example of what kind of people would be the ones to make silent judgments about others in real life. I never said "People need to worry about the judgments made by people who make 'I lose all respect for blah blah blah' secrets, or just people online in general".